Tuesday, December 1, 2009

"space" question for girls?

I asked this girl out about a month ago.. got "just friends" ive tried again in the pass few days, pressuring a little but not to much.. she said she needs space, when a girl says "i need space".. what does it mean? im guessing to consider the idea of us two together? im not all sure though, ladies.. please shed some light.. cos im nuts over this girl.. for now though i will respect what she said and give her space



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Usually "I need space" means "You're too available". It's that whole idea that girls like more aloof/hard to get guys -- the more scarce something is, the more you want it.



Even though you like her, it would be good to play hard to get a bit, and show her that you're worth making some effort for instead of pressuring her and seeming somewhat desperate. I bet once you're not asking her out/ paying as much attention to her, she'll start wondering why and may actually start showing interest.



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that just means she needs time to think.



by asking her so many times, you're putting her on the stop.



just give her some time and let her figure it out for awhile.
She need space so give it to her.
usually she needs "space" means she doesn't want to go out with you... if she was thinking about it she would have said "i need time"... but "space" is refering to distance from you... don't worry about it though, there is no bond between you so you can always find another girl.
usually this means that shes not that interested. if she says that it means shes not interested in you right now. just give her some time and just try to get to know her. she will start to warm to you
Space to most girls is the nice way to let you go to tell you to back off might mean she likes you but likes somone else more may mean that she is confused on who she likes. Many possiblites
Baby, let me tell you.



Like people that like you.



Not the people that you like.



Because



What you want might make you cry.



What you need might pass you by.



And what you need Ironicly will turn out what you want it to be.



If you just let it. _Lauren Hill.
She needs for you to not be interested in her in any other way that "just friends". I had a "just friends" friend and he pressured me so much so I finally gave in and when he kissed me I actually told him it felt really weird like kissing a brother (which I don't even have a brother for all you perverts out there). But he got offended by that and he was deeply saddened that we could no longer be friends at all. We recently accidentally came in contact with each other again and he is still torn about it after at least 10 years. He informed me that he could not tell his current wife (who I have never met) that we spoke (haven't seen each other in person, only a couple of emails and a couple of phone convos) because the only woman she was actually jealous of was me. Because when he first met her all her did was mope around over the non-working of us. Needless to say he has informed me that he is unhappily married. So to keep your friendship please do not pressure this girl, if you remain friends you will be closer to her than if you keep pressuring her and you may end up meeting someone else and this girl can be your support through all aspects of your life.
May be she is mensturating and want some space around her for a few days. Wait for some 6 days, smell the air around and make sure its okay before you go anywhere near her.
The harsh truth of it is, most often we make excuses to those we care about when they want to move the relationship to another level and we, for whatever reason, don't. The nice part, though, is that if she's making an excuse, she cares about your feelings. She just may not see you in that way, and if you want to be her friend and a part of her life, you'll just have to accept that. You've made your feelings known and, if anything changes in the future, she'll let you know, I'm sure. But for now, just don't bring it up again, because it's probably making her uncomfortable. I know, believe me, what it's like to be in that situation. It isn't fun, but I got my best friend in the world out of it, so just ask yourself this: Is she worth losing because you can't have her the way you want her?

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